Dec. 23rd, 2019

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You know, it's actually a good thing when I am able to make a to-do list, because it means that I have some time to actually sit down and sort out my todos, instead of running around being purely reactive.

I'd originally felt some trepidation about basically dropping all 3 of my modding events, but it's meant that I've had more time to enjoy fics in the summer, and more time to actually create things in the winter. I have one of my holiday fics drafted to 90%, and the other one is pretty much finished. (Well, to the point where I've created the AO3 draft and embedded the artwork, but now I'm like "should I go through and amp up the throughlines a bit more?" and thanks to the magic of fandom, was able to find a helpful beta in like, 10 seconds. Thank you, fandom!) Anyway, one is posting on the 28th and the other is posting on the 31st, so I still have some bit of time.

This whole staying at home for the holidays thing is turning out to be not as bad as I'd feared. I was worried that Hoosband wasn't going to take days off, which would mean many days of quantity time with the Rutabaga. (While I love her and she is a great child, she remains 3 years old and I can handle her for maybe 3 hours before really needing a break). But he took 4 days off! Which, coupled with the ones already given by the company, means that I only have 2 days of quantity time (Jan 2nd and 3rd). Huzzah!

I've also been thinking of a reasonable flying policy that is something between Hoosband's "The world is dying and I shall never fly again" and "Screw climate change, I go where I wanna go." The one that I'm kind of turning over in my head is:
  • 1 year of no flying
  • 1 year of ~10 hours of flying (basically either 1 trip to the east coast or 1 trip to Chicago + a short flight to either Portland or LA, although with those we can probably take the train pretty easily)
  • 1 year of ~25 hours of flying (basically a trip across one of the oceans)
    Of course with all the requisite carbon credits or whatnot. I guess the basic idea is to think of one month as having accrued ~1 hour of fly time, which can then be spent with discretion. I think this would allow for me to bring Rutabaga to see cool places and family at a reasonable pace, while also forcing me to spend more time on the ground after we fly somewhere. (As in -- fly to Chicago for 3 weeks with grandma and visiting of friends in the midwest instead of a 3 day sprint.) Yes. This sounds reasonable.

    todo list )
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    A separate post for my unpopular opinion!

    I really don't like it when people say "Happy Holidays" when they in fact mean "I celebrate Christmas and expect that you are also celebrating Christmas, but it's not cool to say Merry Christmas anymore." Sometimes they mean "I don't know whether you're celebrating Christmas or Hannukah* so I'm going to play it safe."

    I feel like it's holiday erasure either way. What I wish people could say is "I celebrate Christmas and want to wish you good cheer for the winter months," to which I would respond "ah! Merry Christmas to you! I don't celebrate it but enjoy sparkly lights and cheery music during these cold times." Or maybe they'd say, "I celebrate Hannukah and am having a jolly good time," to which I would respond "rad! Happy Hannukah!" Or maybe they'd say, "I am enjoying the balmy weather in Australia and would wish you the best in your weird northern climes." Or whatever. I would rather go around wishing others well based on whatever they are (or aren't) celebrating. I guess that's "Season's Greetings", but it makes me sound like a Hallmark card with a snowy reindeer on it. Is there a better way to say "I am feeling cheerful and want to wish you and yours well during this time!"

    At least in about a week I can start saying "Happy New Year!" and not have this conundrum anymore.


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    * yes I'm aware there are other wintery holidays, but those tend to be the two major ones people are assuming

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