Oct. 25th, 2009

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I had a 3 day weekend this week (fall break), ostensibly for me to do grading and comments (which is due tomorrow noon, and which I will start... tonight.) Jono has gone away to Connecticut, which means I have the whole house to myself.

So naturally I spend Friday sleeping a lot and watching Big Bang Theory on sketchy Spanish youtube (tu.tv) because we finally have fast internet again. We started with AT&T DSL, but due to faulty wiring in the wall, the speed was not fast enough for watching any sort of videos. Jono was okay with it until he tried to watch the new Venture Bros episode, and then tried to listen to music via Songza. But now we have Comcast, which is more expensive, but also mega-fast.

Big Bang Theory is... enjoyable. I'm glad that they have settled on a level of geekiness that is not offensive. In the first few episodes, there was a sort of "ha ha look at the nerds" sort of feeling, where we "the audience" is supposed to side with the clueless waitress/wannabe-actress from across the hall. Now we "the audience" side more with the geeks and relish their accomplishments and obsessions as valid topics. Sheldon is an interesting study -- after some initial dilly-dallying around "obsessive-compulsive" (breaking into Penny's apartment to organize everything), he's developed a more stable set of behavior that strikes me as "asperger's" (correct me if I'm wrong)-- He takes language literally, has difficulty understanding sarcasm, follows a strict set of habits, and fears any sort of uncertainty. The other characters deal with his idiosyncrasies, which is quite nice. If he were indeed simulating asperger's, however, I would like him to actually say it as such, so that the general populace can understand that ... "Hey, I shouldn't take social interactions for granted".

I've also been playing Farmville, which is this facebook game where you plant fields and harvest them for money to buy animals and trees. One thing that I really like is that you get points for going to friends' farms and helping them. It's like incentivised altruism. Plus this way you get to see how their farms are going. This also encourages you to make sure your farm is looking good for the visitors. It's a good way to build interest in what is actually a pretty repetitive game. Right now, my incentive is to design a pretty farm that is uses different design principles.

One thing that I really don't like is that there are certain items that you can't buy for yourself, but instead must be given to you. I'd understand if the items were just pricey gifts -- I like giving people presents. But it's frustrating that I can't get the same items through hard work on my part. Not only that, these items aren't just cosmetic -- they affect game play. For example, you get a mega bonus by having 10 different types of trees. But you can only buy 9 types. I feel like I'm waiting around for handouts. I think I'm going to finish designing my farm in the next few days, and then stop.

So I guess that's the type of government that I'd prefer -- one that rewards action/merit, one that rewards altruism, but not one where it's mandatory that I rely on assistance in order to get ahead. I think this is my problem with the health care system here -- There isn't an easy way to be outside of the insurance system. If you don't have insurance, you end up either paying a lot at regular doctors' (even though they give insurance companies discounts..??), or paying competitive pricing at veeeery sketchy places. Insurance is great, but why does it dominate health care? And why is it that we're working to put everyone on insurance instead of making sure that honest competition exists in the health care industry in such a way that the care providers are accountable to the care receivers (me)?

Anyways, I still need to make a dentist appointment, but I don't know who to call -- there's two dentists down the street from my work, which makes it convenient, but one of them looks sketchy and the other is super-booked. There's the dentist that I went to previously who looks pretty decent, but she's in San Jose.
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Ooops, forgot to talk about yesterday. So after lolling around on Friday, Saturday I decided to try to something more active -- namely, sorting out various boxes and unpacking what I can. There's still a lot of stuff that needs sorting, but now I have a sewing table! Slowly but surely, we are diminishing the number of boxes. Soon there will only be the "miscellaneous" and the "somewhat important pile of papers" left. Those are the hardest to sort through.

The apartment that we moved into has the benefit of a larger living room, an extra bathroom, and an extra 14x14 bedroom. We've designated the extra bedroom as a "craft room" -- namely, my sewing, knitting, and art; Jono's warhammer, electronics, and art. The extra bathroom is mostly helpful when both of us want to poop at the same time. The larger living room means that we have enough space for bookshelves for all of our books, plus the TV + game table can co-exist.

There are some disadvantages, however. This extra space comes by connecting the apartments into one big block. Whereas before we were in a building with 2 downstairs and 2 upstairs tenants, now we're in a building with 6 downstairs and 6 upstairs tenants. This means a variety of things -- (a) we can hear each other all too well, (b) our water temperature is affected by (and affecting) 11 other tenants, and (c) the aforementioned wiring problem. Also, our bedroom is oddly slanted, which means that one side of our bed is flat, and the other side is super-slanty. But overall it's pretty good.

Couples life is good, but sometimes it's hard to be productive. I'm used to being productive when I'm living as a single person, but when there's another person to account for in terms of activities and desires, it get a little more confusing. Good thing I can communicate with Jono! So sometimes I'll say, "I need to do grading tonight", and he'll say, "I need to work on code tonight". But a part of me still hasn't gotten over the training that "hey, I should socialize because he's here". On the other hand, it took me a day of watching Big Bang Theory to get back into "productive single person". Anyway, something to work on!

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