summercomfort | (no subject)

I feel like there's many friends out there that I don't really know. And vice versa. Y'know, when you lack the jibe when hanging out, when you have no idea how exactly they would respond or what they'd care to hear. No click. Maybe I need to stop jabbering so much so that I can actually listen. Sometimes I'm too caught up in being me that I forget to ask a "what's up", because I assume that everyone would automatically inform me. (Because I would automatically inform them, except that's not true, either. Some things I don't inform, just because it's not at the top of my head.) Maybe there's supposed to be only a few close friends that work only certain levels. Or maybe I should just stop trying to think after 2am.

Flat | Top-Level Comments Only

I think the "OK, what the hell am I supposed to say now" thing happens between most friends at first, and dissipates with time and attention. Then again, I also think the number of close friends people can have is pretty limited. So, in summary, I am no help on this issue.